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December 30, 2007

Fetish Wear

Category: Fetish Meme

BDSM clothing: fun, too many stereotypes, too expensive, too uncomfortable, boring?

December 29, 2007

Fetish Resolutions

Category: Fetish Meme

Improving, increasing your pleasure in D/s and S&M is always worth thinking about.

December 28, 2007

Safewords

Category: Safety

Do you have, avoid or just tolerate the use of safewording in BDSM scenes?

December 25, 2007

About Fetish Meme

Category: Fetish Meme

Helping people write, blog and think about fetishes, kinks, bondage, BDSM, D/s and S&M

December 24, 2007

Switches

Category: Power Exchange

Can one human being adopt both submissive and dominant, masochistic and sadistic roles in BDSM?

Aftercare

Category: Safety

Post BDSM scene, session requirements for recovery, emotional health.

First Aid Kits

Category: Safety

Do you keep emergency supplies to help manage BDSM scene accidents and trauma?

Female Led Relationships

Category: Female Domination

Is this just a hypocritical avoidance of using conventional BDSM and Femdom terminology?

December 17, 2007

Sub, Slave or ... ?

Category: For Bottoms

As a BDSM bottom what term or designation best sums up your role or status?

Titles and Honorifics

Category: For Tops

In BDSM doms and dommes often invest themselves with fancy words to reflect or express their role.

December 16, 2007

Scenes With Others

Category: For Bottoms

As a submissive man or woman are you comfortable with the idea of doing BDSM with more than one other person at a time?

Degrees of Nonmonogamy

Category: Relationships

Can you handle a loving relationship that incorporates polyamory, polyfidelity?

December 15, 2007

Submission as Life Improvement

Category: For Bottoms

Some submissive people seek 24/7 lifestyle TPE as a form of self-help.

Using D/s to Improve the Bottom as a Person

Category: For Tops

Should a master or mistress seek to control the submissive partner for their own good?

Female Supremacy

Category: Female Domination

The strange F/m faith in the inherent gender inferiority of men.

December 13, 2007

BDSM Dating

Category: Relationships

Meeting people for consensual, risk-aware sadomasochistic experiences.

Fantasy vs Reality

Category: BDSM Psychology

Learning which parts of your BDSM desires are possible, which are not.

December 11, 2007

Better to be Vanilla?

Category: BDSM Psychology

Would you sacrifice your kinks and fetishs if you could have only conventional sexual needs?

Male Orgasm Denial

Category: Female Domination

Consensual chastity: marital and relationship health or sexy fun?

The Bottom that You Seek

Category: For Tops

Doms and dommes have an invisible, secret list of what the want from a slave or submissive lover.

What Do You Want in a Top?

Category: For Bottoms

Qualities a slave, submissive man or woman seeks in a master or domme.

Punishment or Approval?

Category: Training & Conditioning

Is kindness or harshness the most useful tool for modifying the behavior of a voluntary slave?

Punishing a Masochist

Category: Training & Conditioning

Behavioral change and attitude adjustment with a D/s lover who takes pleasure in erotic pain.

BDSM as Lifestyle Improvement

Category: Power Exchange

Using D/s to force a submissive person to live a better, saner, wiser life.