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Gender - D/s - S&M

Is your BDSM influenced by gender performance and sex roles?

Best, Worst Personals and Profiles: Tops or Bottoms or ... ?

Is one power exchange orientation, gender, sexual group better at communicating in online dating?

Fetish & Kink: Evolutions & Changes

Has your sexuality shfited over time, are there ways in which you wish you could modify your desires, needs?

Metaphors

Do you have any personal images that capture what BDSM is for you?

Taboo Kinks

In BDSM do you have needs and desires that you feel are wrong or immoral?

Ideal?

An individual who for you embodies domination, submission, sadism or masochism.

Influences

Influencers, mentors, sources of information, insight into BDSM that have been valuable for you.

Popular Culture

Mass and pop culture influences on your BDSM expectations, performance and desires.

Sacramental BDSM

D/s and S&M acts that seem sacred or transcendent as much as erotic or sexual.

Fantasy vs Reality

Learning which parts of your BDSM desires are possible, which are not.

Better to be Vanilla?

Would you sacrifice your kinks and fetishs if you could have only conventional sexual needs?