Fantasy vs Reality
» BDSM Psychology
In coming to grips with our atypical desires and needs often there is a difficulty in discerning the distinctions between our desires and our needs: between what makes for hot fantasies and is practicable.
Did you struggle to distinguish what excites you in your imagination and is doable in real life?
If you did how do you clarify your feelings and perceptions:
Thinking about BDSM dispassionately Talking to other kinky people Real life experiences
What advice would you offer to someone having difficulty seeing and focusing on real fulfillment of their fetishes and kinks?
Comments
I answered here.
Posted by: Dev | December 19, 2007 12:14 PM