Fetish & Kink: Evolutions & Changes

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Your inventory of fetishes has surely evolved over time. Desires that once seemed foreign you now cherish (or at least tolerate to please someone else). Appetites that were consuming now seem trivial.

Have you experienced fluctuations in your kinkiness? If not in specific acts in depth of feeling?

Has the acquisition or discarding of D/s and S&:M behaviors come in response to another’s feelings, how a lover or play partner felt?

Do you wish you could alter your BDSM sexuality? Do you want to be more (or less):

Dominant / Submissive
Extroverted / Self-contained
Sadistic / Masochistic
Chaste / Lustful

A feeble list I’ll admit. At night have you ever found yourself wishing that you were more (or less) … ? That you wish you liked (or didn’t enjoy) … ?

Richard | March 08, 2008 • Permalink
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I wish I were dominant and bi instead of submissive and straight. I’d have much more opportunities for play then.

Hell even better if I were vanilla:)

Posted by: axe | March 12, 2008 12:58 AM

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