Ideal?
» BDSM Psychology
Helplessly we often admire and despise people we’ve never met. Their image is thrust before our eyes, we read their words, hear their opinions. Happily some beguile and compel us with comeliness, wisdom or less easily defined quality. They give form to who we will feel we want, need or who we hope to become.

And this must be as true of our kink and fetish cravings as more quotidian ambitions.
- Celebrities (pop stars, pop singers)
- Politicians
- Scholars
- Newscasters
- Artists
- Characters in novels
- Athletes
- Beauties
- Activists
- Visionaries
Who have you wanted to possess or be possessed by or to emulate?


Comments
I absolutely admire Midori, for one. She’s just so secure in all her kinks and fetishes. In fact, “secure” isn’t really the right word; she revels in them.
That’s not only admirable; it’s fucking HOT.
Posted by: Teppycat | February 4, 2008 8:36 PM
There is only one ‘femdom’ photograph that I’ve kept around for years.
There’s a nude shackled man bent over a bench and a woman clearly getting ready to beat him. The sheer pleasure on her face is what gives the photo power. It was only years later that I discovered it was an early photograph of Midori.
Posted by: Richard | February 5, 2008 2:35 PM