Chastity and Orgasm Denial
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An early BDSM personals magazine produced by pioneer leatherman Larry Townsend.
There is one thing uniquely funny about male orgasm denial: all those men masturbating about being denied the ability to masturbate. It even causes men - who are desperate because they aren’t being made desperate to make up imaginary stories about chastity and present them as fact.
Enforced male chastity has lots of lore - folklore - and discussions of how to make it work. Which belt is best, comfort, cleanliness: it can be a complicated kink. Let us not forget all that horrendous silly talk about enforced chastity as morally improving.
And that ever-popular question: how long should the guy go without an orgasm.
- Two Days
- Week
- Month
- Six Months
- Only on February 29th
- Forever!
There even used to be a surprisingly likable gynosupremacist blog that argued for the last option.
I know that there are some maledom/femsub chastity practices. But it doesn’t seem nearly as important as it does in femdom relationships. Perhaps because long-term it isn’t nearly as appealing for dominant men even if they can have as much fellatio as they want.
If you wear a chastity belt or device - male or female - what were the criteria and experiences that led you to choose the model that you use.
What is your sweet spot: the length of time between orgasms that keeps it exciting rather than just burdensome or causing your libido to flag?
Do you strive to set new endurance records? To best yourself as it were?
Is lots of tease and denial included?
Have you ever had a long distance key holder?
If you don’t have anyone to do it with have you done things like lock your penis up and mail yourself a key?
Is there advice you’d pass on to a novice wanting to explore consensual enforced chastity
Anything at all you’d like to share or say about orgasm denial?
Fetish Meme.
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Anything at all you’d like to share or say about orgasm denial?
Ever notice that in most of those stories, these guys are married to a woman who gets no enjoyment from having them inside her, let alone to come inside her?
Posted by: Tom Allen | February 18, 2008 7:47 PM
With me, teasing and denial go together. Chastity without erotic teasing is just bland and pointless, especially since I don’t believe in the whole “chastity makes you a better man” thing.
The length of time varies. I’ve found it works best if I don’t know how long it will be. It also helps to mix it up- I may be locked up for a week, then a few days, then a few weeks, etc. with varying amounts of “time off” in between lockups. It helps keep it interesting and fun.
Posted by: roo-roo | February 19, 2008 10:53 AM
i accepted being chaste and having my penis permanently locked up as a condition that my girlfirend Mistress Ellen required. she commands I obey; She rules i jump to Her orders. She wouldnt have it any other way; I serve Her and Hher male friends who become my Masters upon Her snap of Her fingers.
Posted by: Anonymous Wanker | May 22, 2008 3:31 AM