Male Orgasm Denial
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Chastity, orgasm denial play seems one of the fundamentals of interaction between dominant women and submissive men.
One of the most common notions surrounding male orgasm modification and denial is that it makes the man more wholesome, loving, responsive, kinder: he’ll take the trash out. Really if garbage disposal is a serious issue in a romantic relationship then you can only wonder if the is a good reason they haven’t divorced.
Less commonly written about but probably more relevant and true is that controlling orgasms makes sex after the chastity device comes off ever more passionate and sexy. All that repressed lust and desire leaves a man molten and that - femdom propaganda aside - is what most women want.
The foolish folklore about chastity play seems to mainly be propagated by men who feel frustrated that no woman is frustrating them.
What is your own take on orgasm denial and consensual male chastity? Is it morally improving or fun?
Comments
At first my wife was not into orgasm control/denial at all. Now that she has fully embraced a wife led marriage she “gets off” (her words) on it. Granted, it started as my kink, but now it’s our kink. As for being more romantic, etc., I find it to be mostly true. When you haven’t had an orgasm for 10 days and you have just given your wife yet another orgasm any physical contact at all become exhillerating. I tend to tremble all over from just receiving a hug after a decent period of denial. I literally get weak in the knees.
Honestly, the destination is awesome, but it’s the journey that makes it worth it.
Posted by: All For Her | December 13, 2007 12:45 PM
For me, I approach it as something fun, as another kink among many. I don’t see it as a tool to be used, but rather, something to be enjoyed in itself.
Posted by: roo-roo | December 13, 2007 2:33 PM