Sissified Orgasm Denial Cuckolded Small Penis Humiliation Chastity

This cracked me up. I love it!

And I thought I was the only one into McDonald’s cuckold play. It’s a major fetish of mine. McChicken sandwiches get me hot. I want to rub them on my nipples.

Men should be denied orgasms because next time round they’ll be even hotter and hornier. Deny again and they’ll be hotter and hornier still. Keep denying till you’re ready to take advantage of all that hotness and horniness. It’ll pay off big time as long as you do it with strict discipline and firm purpose. Try it for your satisfaction

Forced Queening and trained service is a honor…. Please respond

If you are forced where is the honor?

Men should be told what to do and when to do it at all times.Chastity devices are just a little bit of fun reinforcement for those little guys that have trouble learning!

Hahahaaaarghghghgh - and here I was just growing interested in what you’re doing here, Richard. :)

I have two questions:

1. The purpose of Fetish Meme: Is it for bloggers to browse the questions, and if something strikes their interest, write a post on their own blog on it, possibly linking back here? Or do you just want people to write brief replies in comments? If the intention of Fetish Meme is the former, it may be worth making it clearer in the “To New Visitors” text: a repository of ideas for people to create their own blog posts on. I think it may have good potential, but is not clear enough.

2. You have this charming but at times counterproductive fascination with the more outrageous follies uttered by those who translate lame porn soundtracks in their minds into ideological brain vomit. You get nutty comments and find nutty quotes, write new posts in reaction to that nuttiness, get more search results and comments on the same drivel. Honestly it sometimes reminds me of a teacher in a school who mostly pays attention to buffoons. Then there are the many images posted on your blogs for amusement value, which are entertaining, but many of which may send visitors such as women looking for inspiration on doing sadistic things to men they love and desire, away from a blog of yours right away, because the pictures simply turn them off sexually.

It can overgrow the rest so much that it obscures your insightful, original content, or at least makes it hard to find for just the people it may be helpful for. Have you ever thought on breaking this cycle, and confining the parody of, reactions to and reproduction of written nuttiness and the very quirky images to a few places, while liberating the original, insightful content on at least some of your blogs?

Because the posting of blog memes is about as old as blogging I didn’t think about being explicit about that. I assumed that most people, if they have a blog, would post a response on their own blog and link back here. And perhaps post a comment here linking to their post.

I think this is the only “nutty” post on Fetish Meme itself. It is both an expression of frustration and – as roo-roo understood – a joke. The frustration came when I looked at the site’s traffic and saw almost all of it was coming because of a couple of female domination entries. Admittedly the posts here are a bit dry, perhaps too much so. Though I can’t imagine ever posting “What kind of peanut butter are you?” crap. Much better more comments by SissyMaids from Hell.

Yeah, I have a strong taste for nuttiness. And it isn’t just female domination. My second blog focused on religious crazies and ufo nuts.

Illustrations.

I understand. Years ago I asked The Stockroom to provide me with an ad in which the female top at least had on clothing.

A few years ago I stopped using them on Down On My Knees. Then one of my favorite female sadists wrote to say she missed them!

I’ve felt I’ve been fairly circumspect the last few months with the images. On femdomdating.com, femdomromance.com, femaleledrelationships.net I’ve used mostly vanilla illustrations, particularly magazine and advertising art from the 1950s – 1960s. I like the homoerotic photography I’ve been using on bdamromance.com and it does help breakup the front page. Most of the kinky imagery is going on femdomartists.com, queerpopculture.com and fetishpopculture.com.

I admit to being more than a bit whimsical and lazy with femdomchastity.com of late. That has actually been on my mind. I would think that femdomdating.com and femdomromance.com meet the criterion of steady sobriety.

I’m not going to take the time to make sure this doesn’t sound defensive. Your points neither offend nor hurt me and are certainly most welcome.

If it helps, perhaps try to put yourself into the position of someone new to the blogosphere, and new to kink as well. Open the front pages of your blogs: What are the first impressions? Especially images, entry titles and sidebar texts: What might be, to various different visitors, attractive, interesting, inspiring, sexy, unattractive, confusing?

Yep, I saw roo-roo got the joke. :) I like your parodies and I hope you’ll continue to post some. You just seem to get an especially large quantity of nutty comments on your various blogs, and I think in part this may be caused by the fact that blog posts themselves pay attention to nuttiness rather often (this is not specifically with regard to Fetish Meme, but the other blogs you write). Which invites even more nutty comments. Which can make other readers and potential commenters get too weirded out by what they see and click away. Vicious circle. I think you can break free from this circle by reconsidering the proportion of original content vs. making fun of follies. Or perhaps post the latter mainly on specific blogs, not all of them. Just giving the nuts somewhat less attention.

About images: you could ask around among some more readers what effect they have on them. 50s and 60s vanilla imagery mostly triggers “good little obedient housewife ideology” associations in me. Currently I find the homoerotic ones on bdsmromance.com sexiest. Lovely men. I’m just a sample of 1 person, so mine alone don’t say a whole lot. Best wishes always, R

Some of what I do, particularly with the sidebars, has pragmatic roots that I don’t need to go into. I’ve adjusted things a couple of times in response to comments. But those kinds of comments are rare.

Seeing the old illustrations as sexist is too intensely ideological for my sensibility. They are on sites about female domination and the reader will have to contextualize them. Thinking in terms of the women I know in real life they are variously nonthreatening, humorous, nostalgic.

I really do want to thank you for writing about this. I wish more people would.

I really hope more people will give you input. It’s hard to guess how these things affect other readers. It would be very good to have a broader picture.

Seeing the old illustrations as sexist is too intensely ideological A misunderstanding. It’s not a voluntary association. Not something I choose. It’s an involuntary association triggered in my brain by the drawing style. It reminds me of publications from that period, including the period’s gender politics.

Anyway - people who are new to kink can easily go away when pics or text turn them off too much. So maybe it would help, in general in the blogs you write, to provide the over-the-top nutty talk with less echo. Then people can find the the jewels you write on consensual kink easier.

People who are new to blogging may not be sure what you mean by “Meme” here, so perhaps give them a technical explanation at the top, along with the text encouraging people to express themselves?

I am mindful of some of these things. There’s a reason I employ a fairly chaste vocabulary and have actually chosen images with more care than you might think. And I imagine your correspondence may make me more mindful.

Perhaps.

The females are human beasts, the man has been born in order to tame them!

I agree, it’s interesting, probably I come in handy