Bottoms Who Violate Their Limits
» For Bottoms
Bottoms can have very mixed feelings about their limits. The desire to be pleasing can leave you guilty when there are practices you cannot agree to in engage in.
Have you ever let a top - Master, Mistress, Domme or Dom - convince you to forgo a limit?
- To perform an act that violated your feelings of taste or decency?
- Perhaps it was to ignore your limit for processing pain or accept pain that hurts in the wrong way.
- Or to do something so repulsive that it induces nausea.
- Something that didn’t seem at all safe.
- Maybe violated your sense of dignity or self-worth.
Did it work out OK? Leave you feeling unloved or undervalued?
Perhaps it worked out fine. Perhaps regaining trust in your top took a long time. Or even caused the relationship to end.
Fetish Meme.
Comments
I have enough self-respect to stand by my limits. I do still push myself (or get pushed) at times, but it’s got to be controlled carefully to avoid emotional problems or relationship problems.
What I don’t understand is why so many people insist that there has to be a clear reason for each limit. The way I see it, a limit is a limit, and I don’t need to justify mine to anyone. But some people think that someone else’s limits aren’t valid unless they approve them.
Posted by: roo-roo | April 17, 2008 2:42 PM