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Your relationship with your top (master, mistress) has been strictly one-on-one when the dominant expresses a desire to have you in scenes with other tops and/or other bottoms (slaves, submissive persons).
Do you:
- Accept it as a part of submission
- Balk and try dissuade the top
If the top insisted would you:
- Try to suppress your fear or revulsion
- Leave the relationship
Comments
For me, it’d depend on the other person, the scene itself, and the context. Being made to play with others is a limit for me; that’s not a level of intimacy I’ll give to just anyone. In a way, it’d be similar to being made to have sex with someone…..which is also a limit for me. Anyone who doesn’t respect hard limits or is willing to end a relationship over this isn’t worth my time or my heart.
Posted by: roo-roo | March 14, 2008 3:41 PM