Fetish Checklists
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Fetish checklists are an old idea. You list commonplace kinky activities and note if you like or dislike it and to what degree. (I have a longish one.)
But I wonder how many people have created a BDSM checklist and of those how many have used it. Have you?
What is the best design for such a list?
- Broad generalities
- Fairly specific
- Detailed and nuanced
Do you think fetish checklists should be a part of getting to know or negotiating with a potential new play partner?
As a top do you feel it infringes on your rights or creativity? Or is a tool for discovering how to get what you want from a bottom? Do you present one of your own?
As a top are you squeamish about being specific? Does it seem pushy or a quick way of spotting significant incompatibilities?
Are there any suggestions you’d make to someone trying to write such a list?
Fetish Meme.