Aftercare
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Do you - bottom or top - ever or always require aftercare at the end of an intense BDSM experience?
What elements are important to you for good aftercare?
- Affection
- Comfort food
- Conversation / Debriefing
- Orgasm
- Physical contact
- Add your own requirement
Do you exit the scene emotional space quickly or do you need a gradual return to whatever normality constitutes for you?
Have the aftercare skills and understanding of your partners been poor, fair, good or excellent?
Fetish Meme.
Comments
I don’t need much aftercare. I don’t often go into a deep headspace, and I’m perfectly okay to drive. Usually, a fairly quiet environment is enough to keep me happy. If it’s at a public event though, I may retreat to a quieter area and relax. Sometimes I get the munchies after playing, so I try to plan for that too.
Posted by: roo-roo | December 24, 2007 7:21 PM
I answered this question over here.
Posted by: Teppycat | December 27, 2007 1:10 PM
I answered here.
Posted by: Dev | December 28, 2007 12:59 PM