Aftercare

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Do you - bottom or top - ever or always require aftercare at the end of an intense BDSM experience?

What elements are important to you for good aftercare?

  • Affection
  • Comfort food
  • Conversation / Debriefing
  • Orgasm
  • Physical contact
  • Add your own requirement

Do you exit the scene emotional space quickly or do you need a gradual return to whatever normality constitutes for you?

Have the aftercare skills and understanding of your partners been poor, fair, good or excellent?

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I don’t need much aftercare. I don’t often go into a deep headspace, and I’m perfectly okay to drive. Usually, a fairly quiet environment is enough to keep me happy. If it’s at a public event though, I may retreat to a quieter area and relax. Sometimes I get the munchies after playing, so I try to plan for that too.

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My thanks,
Richard

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